feat: add namespace parameter to equalToXml.

[RafeArnold]

Previously, the behaviour of EqualToXmlPattern in regards to XML namespaces was inconsistent and hard to predict. This PR attempts to define this behaviour and add additional options to be more explicit about how namespaces should be handled.

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[RafeArnold]

docs wiremock/wiremock.org#335