feat: allow unmarshaling of struct with more fields than marshaled struct

[dirkmc]

It's useful to be able to add a field to a struct and for older versions of the code to ignore the added field when unmarshaling.

// V1
type Animal struct {
  Legs int
}

...

// V2
type Animal struct {
  Legs int
  Eyes int
}

This PR modifies the unmarshaling code such that it will ignore any fields it doesn't recognize.

[magik6k]

We may want to make this opt-in (or not; I can't really think of anywhere where making it the default would be a problem)

[magik6k]

Also the method name is moderately odd for what we use it here, but I guess that's ok 🤷

[Stebalien]

Just making sure: this only applies to maps, right?