fix: 3.12 removed distutils, add fallback to setuptools

[GabDug]

Hello!

distutils was removed in Python 3.12, burt is included in setuptools 48+.

We might want to add setuptools to the requirements for Python, maybe as extra?

I'm open for discussion for better ways to add 3.12 support :)

Have a nice day!

[amaanq]

looks good, a bit annoying that Python removed distutils though..

[GabDug]

Fix #162 (by keeping distutils for the moment)

[atapin]

@GabDug should 3.12 be added to the build matrix in the CI pipeline?

[GabDug]

Updated cibuildwheel to the latest version -- it adds wheels by default for CPython 3.12 and Pypy 3.10.

Not sure if it's needed in ci.yml: I see Pypy 3.9 and CPython 3.11 are not there, even though we build for these versions.

[GabDug]

Both workflows are running fine on my fork:
https://github.com/GabDug/py-tree-sitter/actions/runs/6721090411
https://github.com/GabDug/py-tree-sitter/actions/runs/6721090420 (release expected to fail on a fork)

[amaanq]

@GabDug this fails with 3.12 which I just added - do we need to install dependencies somehow first? How would that be done

Nvm, was just a lint thing

[amaanq]

Thanks for the PR and your patience!