Port to scikit-build-core #833

Job	Run time
Test install with generated cython files	3m 15s
Test installation using system supplied libs	2m 58s
Test sse2 code on Linux (gcc)	6m 45s
Test installation using newest version of Taskflow	3m 3s
Python 3.9	4m 51s
Python 3.9	8m 27s
Python 3.9	5m 21s
Python 3.10	5m 12s
Python 3.10	9m 32s
Python 3.10	5m 49s
Python 3.11	5m 23s
Python 3.11	8m 16s
Python 3.11	4m 59s
Python 3.12	5m 2s
Python 3.12	7m 34s
Python 3.12	6m 29s
Python 3.13	8s
Python 3.13	18s
Python 3.13	17s
	1h 33m 39s

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