Handle different queue states on queue deletion from the management API more robustly

[Ayanda-D]

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We'd like to have queue deletion behaviour from the management API to also more robustly handle different queue states, similar to changes introduced to the cli here: #9324 (after prior issues faced in prod). This is an extension/update to #9550

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[michaelklishin]

Thank you!

[michaelklishin]

FYI, #9550 is about to be reverted, which effectively affects this PR.

Replacing direct client's authorization checks ended up being not worth the gains (in #9550).