Bypass find_package(torch) for find_package_torch_headers to help out cross compilation

[swolchok]

To be honest, I don't understand how the Android demo compiles currently. Indeed, it doesn't work on my Mac without this change, but with this change it does.

Should fix #8556

[swolchok]

Stack from ghstack (oldest at bottom):

• build_variables.bzl: split PLATFORM_SRCS from EXECUTORCH_CORE_SRCS #8398
• build_variables.bzl: split PROGRAM_NO_PRIM_OPS_SRCS from EXECUTORCH_CORE_SRCS #8397
• create and validate build_variables.bzl #8326
• determine fht_avx.c/fht_neon.c based on CMake target processor #8346
• Add extension/llm/custom_ops/spinquant/test to CMake #8345
• -> Bypass find_package(torch) for find_package_torch_headers to help out cross compilation #8629

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As of commit ff128f7 with merge base 52a3a9a ():

NEW FAILURES - The following jobs have failed:

• Check Labels / Check labels (gh)
  RuntimeError: Error checking labels: PR does not have required labels
• pull / test-llama-runner-linux (bf16, custom) / linux-job (gh)
  RuntimeError: mmap can only be used with files saved with torch.save(stories110M.pt, _use_new_zipfile_serialization=True), please torch.save your checkpoint with this option in order to use mmap.`

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[swolchok]

error message I was getting for posterity:

CMake Error at .etvenv/lib/python3.12/site-packages/cmake/data/share/cmake-3.31/Modules/FindPackageHandleStandardArgs.cmake:233 (message):
  Could NOT find Torch (missing: TORCH_LIBRARY)
Call Stack (most recent call first):
  .etvenv/lib/python3.12/site-packages/cmake/data/share/cmake-3.31/Modules/FindPackageHandleStandardArgs.cmake:603 (_FPHSA_FAILURE_MESSAGE)
  .etvenv/lib/python3.12/site-packages/torch/share/cmake/Torch/TorchConfig.cmake:175 (find_package_handle_standard_args)
  build/Utils.cmake:386 (find_package)
  build/Utils.cmake:344 (find_package_torch)
  CMakeLists.txt:628 (find_package_torch_headers)