增强instanceId兼容性，调整status同步逻辑

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Fixes #1016

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Codecov Report

Merging #1018 (d0f07a1) into main (71a86a8) will increase coverage by 0.69%.
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+ Misses      12141    11885     -256     
- Partials     2566     2590      +24     

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[chuntaojun]

修复下 golangci-lint 的问题。先执行 bash import-format.sh 格式化 import 的顺序