executor: fix tidb crash when shuffleExec quit unexpectedly

[wshwsh12]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #48230

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
  Test issue Tidb crashes when sql with shuffleExec quit unexpectedly #48230 by manual
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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Fix tidb crash when shuffleExec quit unexpectedly

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Timeline:

• 2023-12-04 08:59:33.393724505 +0000 UTC m=+1431602.058950700: ☑️ agreed by XuHuaiyu.
• 2023-12-04 09:48:54.096554988 +0000 UTC m=+1434562.761781183: ☑️ agreed by guo-shaoge.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-5.3: #49144.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-5.4: #49145.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-6.1: #49146.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-6.5: #49147.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-7.1: #49148.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-7.5: #49149.