Add local CI scripts & rebase docker image

[dagardner-nv]

Description

• Docker image uses rapidsai/ci-conda as the base per rapidsai/ops#2806
• Adds the ability to CI locally via ./ci/scripts/run_ci_local.sh build & ./ci/scripts/run_ci_local.sh test
• Fix type-o in benchmark stage causing benchmarks to be executed twice & preventing results from being published.
• Add .tmp and .clangd to .gitignore
• Document need to set DOCKER_BUILDKIT=1 for docker builds.

fixes #393
fixes #397

Checklist

• I am familiar with the Contributing Guidelines.
• New or existing tests cover these changes.
• The documentation is up to date with these changes.

[cwharris]

Is there an issue associated with the run ci locally related work?

[dagardner-nv]

Is there an issue associated with the run ci locally related work?

There is now #397

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #394 (f5aaf38) into branch-23.11 (40d20a3) will increase coverage by 0.00%.
Report is 1 commits behind head on branch-23.11.
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[dagardner-nv]

/merge