fixes ORC memory leaks; marks hooks with optQuirky (#24701)

closes #24686
closes #24693

```nim
# v.nim
import std/[json]

var test: seq[string]
var testData: JsonNode
try:
  ## Fails
  testData = parseJson("""[{"id": 1"}, {"id": "2"}]""")

  ## Works
  # testdata = parseJson("""[{"id": "1"}, {"id": "2"}]""")
  
  ## Fails
  # let stream = newStringStream("""[{"id": 1"}, {"id": "2"}]""")
  # testData = parseJson(stream, "input", false, false)
  # stream.close()
  
except:
  testData = %* []
for t in testData:
  test.add(t["id"].getStr())
echo $test
```

With this PR:

```
==66425== LEAK SUMMARY:
==66425==    definitely lost: 0 bytes in 0 blocks
==66425==    indirectly lost: 0 bytes in 0 blocks
==66425==      possibly lost: 0 bytes in 0 blocks
==66425==    still reachable: 16,512 bytes in 2 blocks
==66425==         suppressed: 0 bytes in 0 blocks
==66425== Reachable blocks (those to which a pointer was found) are not shown.
==66425== To see them, rerun with: --leak-check=full --show-leak-kinds=all
==66425== 
==66425== For lists of detected and suppressed errors, rerun with: -s
==66425== ERROR SUMMARY: 0 errors from 0 contexts (suppressed: 0 from 0)
```

compiler/liftdestructors.nim

@@ -1207,6 +1207,8 @@ proc produceSym(g: ModuleGraph; c: PContext; typ: PType; kind: TTypeAttachedOp;
     result.ast[pragmasPos].add newTree(nkExprColonExpr,
         newIdentNode(g.cache.getIdent("raises"),  info), newNodeI(nkBracket, info))
 
+  if kind == attachedDestructor:
+    incl result.options, optQuirky
   completePartialOp(g, idgen.module, typ, kind, result)