reduce flakiness by allowing Compaction failed, retrying in X queue is in state Stopped.

[LizardWizzard]

Problem

resolves #4374

Summary of changes

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[github-actions]

1004 tests run: 964 passed, 0 failed, 40 skipped (full report)

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