feat: increase revice msg size and send msg size in grpc

[gaius-qi]

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Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)
• Documentation Update (if none of the other choices apply)

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• My change requires a change to the documentation.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• I have read the CONTRIBUTING document.
• I have added tests to cover my changes.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 52.56%. Comparing base (a548876) to head (04823aa).

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   52.58%   52.56%   -0.02%     
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  Files         192      192              
  Lines       20468    20468              
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- Hits        10763    10760       -3     
- Misses       8901     8902       +1     
- Partials      804      806       +2     

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unittests	52.56% <ø> (-0.02%)	⬇️

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