[improve] improve hazelcast joiner, lite node can't be election as master

[liunaijie]

Purpose of this pull request

close #8248

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

How was this patch tested?

Check list

• If any new Jar binary package adding in your PR, please add License Notice according
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• If necessary, please update the documentation to describe the new feature. https://github.com/apache/seatunnel/tree/dev/docs
• If you are contributing the connector code, please check that the following files are updated:
  1. Update plugin-mapping.properties and add new connector information in it
  2. Update the pom file of seatunnel-dist
  3. Add ci label in label-scope-conf
  4. Add e2e testcase in seatunnel-e2e
  5. Update connector plugin_config
• Update the release-note.

[liunaijie]

overwrite the default behavoir, use overwrite Joiner

https://github.com/hazelcast/hazelcast/blob/v5.1/hazelcast/src/main/java/com/hazelcast/instance/impl/Node.java#L841

https://github.com/hazelcast/hazelcast/blob/master/hazelcast/src/main/java/com/hazelcast/internal/cluster/impl/DiscoveryJoiner.java#L38

https://github.com/hazelcast/hazelcast/blob/master/hazelcast/src/main/java/com/hazelcast/internal/cluster/impl/MulticastJoiner.java#L34

[liunaijie]

tested in my company with K8S deploy, it can work well

[Hisoka-X]

Could you update

seatunnel/seatunnel-engine/seatunnel-engine-client/src/test/java/org/apache/seatunnel/engine/client/SeaTunnelEngineClusterRoleTest.java

Line 52 in 1a5feb1

public class SeaTunnelEngineClusterRoleTest {

to test this situation?

[liunaijie]

Could you update

seatunnel/seatunnel-engine/seatunnel-engine-client/src/test/java/org/apache/seatunnel/engine/client/SeaTunnelEngineClusterRoleTest.java

Line 52 in 1a5feb1

public class SeaTunnelEngineClusterRoleTest {

to test this situation?

Add test about TcpIp and multicast.
The K8S can re-use the exist e2e test https://github.com/apache/seatunnel/blob/dev/seatunnel-e2e/seatunnel-engine-e2e/seatunnel-engine-k8s-e2e/src/test/java/org/apache/seatunnel/engine/e2e/k8s/KubernetesIT.java#L72

[Hisoka-X]

why not return super.createJoiner(node);?

[liunaijie]

Has cover all cases. Same like original implement.