Upgrade arrow-rs, parquet to `54.0.0` and pyo3 to `0.23.3` #36923

Job	Run time
Check License Header	2m 25s
build with wasm-pack	3m 29s
cargo test (macos-aarch64)	15m 15s
Check cargo fmt	43s
linux build test	4m 57s
Verify MSRV (Min Supported Rust Version)	10m 6s
Verify Vendored Code	55s
cargo check datafusion	6m 15s
cargo check functions	2m 20s
cargo doc	5m 51s
cargo check no default features	10m 9s
cargo test (amd64)	13m 16s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	5m 26s
cargo test doc (amd64)	19m 19s
cargo examples (amd64)	18m 4s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	5m 32s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	9m 3s
check Cargo.toml formatting	3m 40s
clippy	8m 17s
check configs.md and ***_functions.md is up-to-date	4m 30s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	3m 36s
	2h 33m 8s

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