feat: control focus on search behavior

[romansndlr]

Closes #7781

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[romansndlr]

Hi @LFDanLu @devongovett 👋

I would love for some guidance on what else should I do here to get this PR to a reviewable state

[eyalcohen4]

We really need this feature in :) Thank you @romansndlr

[reidbarber]

Thanks for this! Discussed with the team and we decided that since this defaults to false, we should rename it so it can default to true. I pushed that change and also added a unit test, hope you don't mind! We're hoping to get this in very soon!

[romansndlr]

Thanks for this! Discussed with the team and we decided that since this defaults to false, we should rename it so it can default to true. I pushed that change and also added a unit test, hope you don't mind! We're hoping to get this in very soon!

Y'all are amazing! Thanks so much!

[reidbarber]

@romansndlr No problem! Do you mind signing the CLA, then closing and re-opening this PR? That should trigger a re-build that should pass CI checks.