Extended configuration of OOM injection mode

[gerashegalov]

This PR enables specifying OOM injection mode with additional config

such as

• num_ooms to inject
• skip=N to make triger first OOM on N+1st allocation
• type with the current default mix CPU_OR_GPU, CPU (just host allocations), GPU (just device allocations)
• split=bool whether to inject SplitAndRetryOOM

Enables IT invocations such as :

PYSP_TEST_spark_rapids_memory_gpu_state_debug=STDERR \
TEST_PARALLEL=0 \
SPARK_HOME=~/dist/spark-3.3.0-bin-hadoop3 \
./integration_tests/run_pyspark_from_build.sh \
  -k array_exists --test_oom_injection_mode=always:type=CPU,num_ooms=1,skip=4,split=true

This PR requires is stacked on NVIDIA/spark-rapids-jni#1637

[revans2]

Generally it looks good.

[gerashegalov]

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[jbrennan333]

Looking good - just a few minor nits, and it looks like prebuild checks are failing.

[gerashegalov]

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[gerashegalov]

@jbrennan333 sorry missed one of your comments. PTAL again.

[jbrennan333]

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[gerashegalov]

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