Unify FPS and V-Sync controls and behavior between renderer

[Spodi]

• DirectX's "Match Refresh Rate" is now a checkbox like in OpenGL and Metal.
• Clamp max FPS to refresh rate when V-Sync is enabled or can't be disabled, regardles of the FPS sliders setting, to avoid slowdown in Metal / OpenGL and dropping frames in DirectX as much as possible.
• FPS slider allows up to 360 FPS in every renderer. This needs V-Sync toggle in SDL (OpenGL + Metal) Kenix3/libultraship#822, or it doesn't make much sense (currently included in this PR to allow testing).

Build Artifacts

• soh-linux.zip
• soh-mac.zip
• soh-windows.zip

[larsy1995]

Did some quick testing on macOS and it seems to work just as intended on both OpenGL and Metal.

[aMannus]

FYI I want to get this in but we're in the middle of moving over to the modern menu, so this may have to be parked until that's done.

[briaguya-ai]

this is still showing LUS changes. as of #5092 everything this needs from the LUS side should be in, so there should be no changes to the LUS submodule

[Spodi]

Oops, I just clicked something on my phone. There is nothing to review yet xD

[Spodi]

Included LUS changes should be removed now