feat(http): add callbacks to components, tweak callback structure

[chohmann]

Motivation and Context

#17287

Description

• updates types to support callbacks in components and that they can be references

How Has This Been Tested?

• yalc'd into http-spec and then into platform-internal, and those tests are passing

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Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

Checklist

• This PR's code follows as closely as possible the coding style/guidelines of this project.
• I have added error reporting and followed the error reporting guidelines.
• I have added event tracking and followed the event tracking guidelines.
• I have updated any relevant documentation accordingly to reflect this PR's changes.
• I have added automated tests (unit/integration/e2e/other) to cover my changes.
• All new and existing tests pass locally (excluding flaky CI tests).

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