Speed up test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery test

[Rjected]

For example in this CI run, test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery took a lot of time:
https://github.com/paradigmxyz/reth/actions/runs/9603455329/job/26486706883?pr=8968

        PASS [   0.159s] reth-transaction-pool::it evict::only_blobs_eviction
        PASS [  10.437s] reth-node-ethereum::e2e p2p::can_sync
  TRY 1 SLOW [> 30.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
  TRY 1 SLOW [> 60.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
  TRY 1 SLOW [> 90.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
TRY 1 TRMNTG [>120.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
   TRY 1 TMT [ 120.006s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
--- TRY 1 STDOUT:        reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery ---
running 1 test
test startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery has been running for over 60 seconds

   DELAY 2/3 by   1.699s reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
   RETRY 2/3 [         ] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
  TRY 2 SLOW [> 30.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
  TRY 2 SLOW [> 60.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
  TRY 2 SLOW [> 90.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
TRY 2 TRMNTG [>120.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
   TRY 2 TMT [ 120.007s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
--- TRY 2 STDOUT:        reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery ---
running 1 test
test startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery has been running for over 60 seconds

   DELAY 3/3 by   3.361s reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
   RETRY 3/3 [         ] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
  TRY 3 SLOW [> 30.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
  TRY 3 SLOW [> 60.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
  TRY 3 SLOW [> 90.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
TRY 3 TRMNTG [>120.000s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
   TRY 3 TMT [ 120.010s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery
--- TRY 3 STDOUT:        reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery ---
running 1 test
test startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery has been running for over 60 seconds

   Canceling due to test failure
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     Summary [ 377.896s] 148 tests run: 147 passed, 1 timed out, 10 skipped
   TRY 3 TMT [ 120.010s] reth-network::it startup::test_tcp_port_node_record_discovery

This test should be fixed to not stall

[mattsse]

hmm this is odd, can't reproduce locally, but perhaps this has something to do with the discovery part here

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