Support returning non-critical warnings when decoding

[luxas]

Hi! Thanks for this great project 🥇 💯

When decoding JSON, sometimes you just want to inform the users about problems in the serialized content, rather than returning an error or staying silent. I realize that the Attachment field of https://pkg.go.dev/github.com/json-iterator/go#Iterator could be used for this purpose (thanks for adding that in advance!) by a custom warning-supporting decoder, but it would be nice to add this field specifically for this purpose, so it could be re-used more generally.

The two main uses I see for it would be to warn instead of error when there are duplicate or unknown fields when decoding.
I can make a PR with this change if accepted. Would you be open to this?